Some Background....

I have a friend who's ex bought his pre-teen daughter boys boxer/brief underwear for her birthday because he thought her girl panties(briefs) were too revealing. Some of us were commiserating and contemplating what this friend should do and how she should handle the situation, as her daughter was very upset and didn't want to wear boys underwear.

The discussion reminded me about the following example:  After my ex had filed for divorce and was sleeping in the living room on the fold-out couch(he refused to move out eventhough I paid 100% of the mortgage),  he would disappear in the mornings before any normal human would be up. When I would get up(at a normal early morning hour) and go downstairs for coffee, there would be a pair of woman's thong panties "staged" on the fold-out bed for me to see.  I would just fold up the couch leaving bedding and the "surprises" untouched(except for taking a few snapshots as proof), document what happened, and never say a thing.

Here is an example of this psycosis:

So now you are wondering, was there some girl that spent the night - and was this his psychotic way of letting me know?   What is the deal with that?  Well, my guess is that's what he wanted me to believe, when in fact HE WAS WEARING THEM!!  Really,  You ask? How would I know this?  Well, a couple times I needed to go downstairs to get something, and I surprised him standing there WEARING THE PANTIES!!!   Yes, I kid you not, he was wearing them, and it totally freaked me out.   What did HE do?  He ran into the bathroom and hid until I went back upstairs.  And yes he looked mad that I caught him wearing the woman's thong underwear.

So, after remembering that psychotic time during the phase of my divorce where the psychotic STBX(Soon To Be eX) was having fun in/with women's underwear, I was chatting with a girlfriend and I told her,  "You know I should start a blog.  You know that blog "shitmykidsruined"?"  I should start one called "shitmypsychoexdid".   And here we are!!

Enjoy!